answering all the quest by comparing and paraphrasing some vocab
to me, 

your example is the side that you dont choose how you being effected negatively..

think .. visualize what you are goinig to say ...take a moment of thinking ....say directly whe you did that ...you affected in a negative way..rasie you voice..spk loudly..


 imp.. situation....rsult...thts why..pict in mind ..

think about the timer...


45-35..quest,,and reasons..or directly


35- 15...ist example.

say something about yourself or your nature or the nature of the choice  that make the other choice is not convenient to me  for  you to other choice...
 recent studies show that 
Ia m interested in ...
the more you ...the more you
  

or just say In fact, the opposite is true. Technology has improved my relationships. directly start talking about yourself and the reason


if you.action in quest..youu will..ressult be be..... this is because ...expalin how 

To me, I don't think it's a good idea for kids to have cell phones because they're addicting. Take my nephew, Michael

So, to sum up, I definitely don't think

In my experience